From The Beginning

A Questionnaire

2006-06-30T15:55:00.000+01:00

Name: Faye
Birthday: 24th August
Birthplace: UK
Current Location: UK
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Brown
Height: 5ft 9
Right Handed or Left Handed: Both
Your Heritage: Mixed - Black Caribbean and White English
The Shoes You Wore Today: White Peep Toes 3 1/2 Inch Stiletto Sandals
Your Weakness: Not sure
Your Fears: Spiders and Reptiles and stuff like that.
Your Perfect Pizza: Jalapeno Peppers, Pepperoni and Extra Cheese
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Get my new car and clearing old debts
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: OMG
Thoughts First Waking Up: Is it the weekend!
Your Best Physical Feature: Legs
Your Bedtime: Whenever i feel to sleep
Your Most Missed Memory: Not quite sure
Pepsi or Coke: Neither - Fanta or Tango - Ice Cold Still Fanta
MacDonalds or Burger King: Burger King
Single or Group Dates: Single
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Lipton
Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate of course !
Cappuccino or Coffee: Black Coffee - espresso
Do you Smoke: No
Do you Swear: Sometimes
Do you Sing: I try !
Do you Shower Daily: Of course or a bath
Have you Been in Love: Yes
Do you want to go to College: I have been
Do you want to get Married: I do !!
Do you belive in yourself: Of Course!
Do you get Motion Sickness: Depends in cars no - on boats for the first couple of minutes - On planes no
Do you think you are Attractive: Yes - I should hope so!
Are you a Health Freak: Sometimes i can be
Do you get along with your Parents: Yes
Do you like Thunderstorms: Depends if they are very bad
Do you play an Instrument: Yes
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: Yes
In the past month have you Smoked: No
In the past month have you been on Drugs: No
In the past month have you gone on a Date: Yes
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: Of Course
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: Half a Box
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: Yes
In the past month have you been on Stage: Hell No !!
In the past month have you been Dumped: Nope
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: Yep in the bath!
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: Nope
Ever been Drunk: Yep
Ever been called a Tease: Yep but it wasn't my fault
Ever been Beaten up: Hell No, I can defend it!
Ever Shoplifted: Nope
How do you want to Die: Peacefully and quickly
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: Myself and a qualified midwife
What country would you most like to Visit: many - the list is too long

In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Green or Hazel
Favourite Hair Color: Dark Brown or Black
Short or Long Hair: Short
Ethnic Background: Black Caribbean or mixed with caribbean or italian
Height: 5ft 11 and preferably above
Build: nice abs with nice pecs so average build
Best Clothing Style: Depends on where we are going and how you are feeling
Number of Drugs I have taken: 0
Number of CDs I own: Loads
Number of Piercings: 5 - 3 in each ear 1 in top of one ear and one in belly button
Number of Tattoos: 1 bottom of spine
Number of things in my Past I Regret: None so far

You should take the test yourself and send it to me
xxx

Have a good weekend!

Work and Play

2006-06-29T09:10:00.000+01:00

There a really not enough hours in one day for us to get entire satisfaction from play after work.

That is why if you are in a job that is blessed with having the weekend off you are lucky. For quite a

long period of time I have been working on a Friday night and a Saturday which leaves me the Sunday to play but by that time I am too tired to even eat let alone play, if you know what I mean.

I can't really say that I have it all bad during the week though, I start at 9am and I am out the door by 5pm on the dot. Monday to Friday. My play used to consist mostly of the good stuff but at the moment it is flat hunting and exercise so I can safely say I am stuck in a rut.

Most people at work are either constantly busy or really bored well I am glad that I am right in the middle. Somedays things will be really slow and other days i can't even see my desk from the paperwork piled on it, but it keeps me busy so i am not complaining. The only thing that i think worth complaining about in my job is the team i work in as it is not exactly organised. For the past couple of weeks it has been very boring as it seems when the world cup is on not many people attend work.

I arrived home the other day, ratty from the traffic. When i arrived i was thinking maybe when i get in dinner may be ready candles etc but no curtains were drawn and he was in bed ASLEEP. When he opened is eyes the only thing he managed to say to me was 'I am going to work tonight' he then went back to sleep.

Ridiculous!

From Then Until Now

2006-06-28T14:50:00.000+01:00

Well,
It all started back in college. Himself was dating a girl that attending one of my subjects. One day in the canteen he confided in me that he didn't want to be with her anymore.
That was when we started to walk and talk on a regular basis. I would walk with him into the town centre and he would offer to walk me home. But then we would go our separate ways.
In the next couple of weeks she broke it off with him and I guess he was on the rebound. So we got closer, but remained friends. In the next couple of months things changed and here we are now 2 1/2 years later still together.
When you have been together for a length of time, I am sure that it is not unusual to find certain faults with each other. So we are in theory just making a good thing better by sticking together.
A question that I can't answer myself even though I have seen it everywhere, why is it so hard to love your nearest and dearest unconditionally but you can love those not so close to you unconditionally???
That is something that has baffled me for a long while...
I have a suggestion for the answer and that would be that, the people that are not so close to you, you can love unconditionally because you don't see them enough to even come close to wanting to know their little faults and traits. However the people that we are very close to, surely we have certain expectations of what we want them to be like and if they don't meet those expectations that is why we cant love them unconditionally but the people that we aren't so close to we are still in hope that they might meet our highest expectations.
Time is love and sometimes money. It amazes me that one question can have so many different answers.